After reading my previous posts, you might ask, why the sudden switch? From over-emotional, wacked out pregnant Stay-At-Home-Mommy to blissfully preaching happy-go-lucky. Well, on Monday, I had my level II ultrasound and saw my second child yawning ever so satisfactorily in his own private jacuzzi and instantly the powerful and joyful feelings of motherhood cleared out the cobwebs of pessimism and fear. I couldn't help but notice how much he looked like my firstborn son Che and then realized that I'm now the mom of two sweet little boys. What a beautiful way to step outside myself and my own personal agenda and finally get a glimpse of what's really happening in my life right now - LIFE, and it's not ending - it's evolving and it just got a lot more interesting. Hormones can be killer sometimes. Go easy on yourselves when it happens, ladies.
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On a rainy (hormonal) day, I may need to come back to this posting and read what I'm going to need to know to whip myself back into shape. What will it take to shake out the monster that is residing inside you telling you life sucks? Make your list. One of my dear friends, Silvia Gogh of www.miss-scuba.com/, once reminded me of a daily AM ritual you might try over coffee. Tell yourself the following: I'm grateful for what I have. I'm grateful for my health. I could lose it all tomorrow. And if that's not powerful enough, here's some helpful tips I read from The Happiness Project by Gretchen Rubin: Start going to bed earlier, fake it until you feel it (that's what I go by!), "enjoy the fun of failure", buy happiness (but don't eat your way to it), exercise, and realize that what makes you happy is not the same as someone else. Be okay with that. My last resort happiness tactic is going to the gym and listening to David Guetta on Pandora. If I can't make it there for some reason, I'll put it on my stereo or laptop as loud as it goes, get Che and get a dance party going. The way he laughs at me movin' and groovin' and gets his own beat goin ' is enough to shake any bad feelings I've got brewing.
Make it a priority to be happy. Fake it till you make it. It's SO worth it and it benefits everything else too - from your health to your relationships. You've got a chance to be happy, because no matter what is happening, it truly could be worse. I wish you to be happy. You'll help the whole world and yourself that way.